Beeing a nanny - a refuge for rainy days or a vocation
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Psychologist's advice


Beeing a nanny - a refuge for rainy days or a vocation?



Before you decide to apply for nanny, our advice is to take a good look at yourself, and answer these questions:
  • Why do you want to become a nanny?
  • Do you love children?
  • Are you a calm, tolerant, kind person?
  • How well do you handle stress?
  • A re you a flexible person?
If you truly like children and are sure you’re not doing this because you think there’s no other option for you, if you are known among your acquaintances as a kind, understanding, adaptable, sure of yourself, correct individual, then you are the right person for being a nanny.

Apart from the personality trays though, a minimum of children’s psychology knowledge is required. Many of you have enough experience in raising children. However, there’s always something new to learn that can help you add to your skills.

The child, no matter how young may be, is a person. Imagine yourself coming into an infant’s room. What is the first thing that you should do, as a hygiene rule? Psychologists recommend that you talk to the child, tell him everything that you do (take him into your arms, change him, feed him). Try to explain in detail every action of yours that affects him. In this way, children learn faster the language, become more sure of the world they live in and less anxious.

Talk to them when they cry and try not to look discouraged. Even if they don’t understand the meaning of words, children perceive your voice inflections, the tone, they get used to the language. They are able to perceive your state of mind. Talk to them when you are happy, describe to them what you are feeling. Tell them when you are upset, it is good for them to get in touch with a vast emotional range. Nobody is happy or in a good mood all the time.

"All is language", said Françoise Dolto, a well-known French pediatrician and psychoanalyst. Encourage and praise them when they’re doing something good. Try as much as possible not to notice their mistakes. Sometimes children misbehave only to get your attention. They’ll give up this behavior if they see that they cannot attract your attention in this way.

Language is like a sword that cuts both ways. It can be healing, but at the same time wounding. Avoid putting negative labels such as: "you are a bad child", "you’re naughty", "you’re stupid", etc. These can leave deep wounds in a child’s soul, deepening his low self esteem, depression and anxiety.

Use words and language in a positive, creative way, and good results will come for sure.


Sofia Manuela Nicolae,
Clinician Psychologist and Psychotherapist
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